Friends’ replacement show, which has an 84% rating on Rotten Tomatoes, ultimately made its harshest reality less forgivable. The best episodes of Friends remind audiences why the hit sitcom is so brilliant, which centers on the six main characters’ wild escapades living in New York City. However, their lifestyles create a sitcom plot hole that leaves us questioning their finances.
There are many financially unrealistic sitcom characters in TV history. In fact, the sitcom subgenre is well-renowned for this trope. As every season of Friends progresses, the characters’ finances only make less sense. However, the characters in How I Met Your Mother are even worse in this context, and the show’s strong Rotten Tomatoes rating isn’t enough to distract from it.
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For a group who frequently face a lack of work, or are even fired at points, the Friends characters are never really that close to losing their homes. Friends depicts the financial compensation of these characters’ jobs as being far more secure than they are, and this creates a few plot holes.
Phoebe lives with her grandmother for quite a while, for example, but for someone who collects a pension and a masseuse, it makes no sense that they can afford their place. Even later in the show, the only way it is logically possible for Phoebe to stay there is if her roommate, Denise, pays for a majority of the rent and bills.

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Monica’s apartment is under rent control, but when she loses her job in season 2, Rachel is still only a waitress. Even with rent control, before Ross helps Monica, how can they afford their place? Joey’s acting career isn’t a secure form of employment, and paleontologists/university lecturers in the real world don’t live the same lifestyle as Ross, either.
Chandler is the only one out of the main six whose paycheck makes sense.
In fact, Chandler is the only one out of the main six whose paycheck makes sense. At the same time, though, Chandler basically pays for everything Joey until he is cast in Days of Our Lives, but after Drake falls down an elevator shaft, he’s back to square one. Throughout the show, the Friends gang are frivolous when it comes to money.
Rachel works hard to save for her Thanksgiving skiing trip, for example, which should really be a luxury for a coffee shop waitress. Interestingly, the season 2 episode “The One With Five Steaks and an Eggplant” acknowledges that Rachel, Joey, and Phoebe’s incomes differ greatly from the others. However, after this episode, Friends doesn’t really acknowledge the financial divide.
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How I Met Your Mother is considered Friends’ successor by many, but the other hit sitcom weirdly repeats this detail. Like Chandler, the only character in How I Met Your Mother whose financial situation makes sense is Barney’s. This is because Barney’s job responsibilities are incredibly vague, but it’s established that he is compensated well and involves something secretive.
When Barney is questioned about his job, he always replies with “Please.” In the How I Met Your Mother season 8 episode “Unpause,” this is revealed to be an anagram for “Provide Legal Exculpation And Sign Everything.”
However, every season of How I Met Your Mother takes things even further when it comes to ludicrous expenses, but especially in the show’s earlier installments. Robin starts as a reporter for a small station hardly anyone watches, and she often works unsociable hours, yet she can afford a decent apartment by herself and multiple dogs.
Lily is a kindergarten teacher, and it’s later revealed that she has a mountain of credit card debt. Before she marries Marshall, Lily still has a small apartment (which is eventually turned into a Chinese restaurant), but she’s always at Marshall and Ted’s place. Marshall is a law student, but we never hear any mention of a part-time job to keep himself afloat.

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Barney’s job at GNB was always kept a mystery no matter how many times fans said “please” – until season 9, that is.
Despite the glamorous exterior of the job, architects don’t make as much money as many believe. Ted is only 27 in How I Met Your Mother season 1, and most architects have several decades of experience under their belts before they lead any major projects. Even if Ted had been some sort of young architectural genius, he still couldn’t afford to support him, Lily, and Marshall.
It’s worth noting that there are a few details that help justify this, even if they’re weak. For example, in the How I Met Your Mother masterpiece episode “Slap Bet,” we learn about Robin’s past as Canadian pop star Robin Sparkles, which suggests she likely has savings from her teenage years. Other episodes also establish that Robin’s father is a rich businessman, too.
How I Met Your Mother’s Outlook On Money Is So Unrealistic
How I Met Your Mother somehow goes even further with this than Friends, though. While the activities of the Friends gang are unrealistic, How I Met Your Mother goes to the extreme. Barney can somehow afford flights anywhere and everywhere, and Marshall is seemingly able to drop his studies or job on a whim, as are Robin and Ted.
Weirdly, Lily appears to be around a lot of the time. Although kindergarten takes up a good amount of the calendar year, she’s present in most of How I Met Your Mother’s best episodes because she’s never at work. The group is frequently up late, drinking long into the night, but the topic of hangovers is only touched on a few times throughout the show.
How I Met Your Mother Season |
Rotten Tomatoes Rating (July 2025) |
---|---|
Season 1 |
67% |
Season 2 |
93% |
Season 3 |
100% |
Season 4 |
100% |
Season 5 |
100% |
Season 6 |
100% |
Season 7 |
78% |
Season 8 |
54% |
Season 9 |
75% |
Even when their financial situations hit rough patches at points, How I Met Your Mother quickly forgets about it. For example, Lily and Marshall don’t really complain about their mortgage after they purchase their first apartment, despite its high interest rate due to Lily’s credit card debt.
Another example of this, specific to Lily, is when she returns to New York after breaking up with Marshall. Lily notably struggles to find her new calling in life and doesn’t have any secure employment, and while her tiny apartment is falling apart, it makes no sense that she can afford it by herself (even if it’s the most realistic one in the show).
How I Met Your Mother was on the air during the 2008 financial crisis, but the show didn’t really reference this real-world event at the time, even though it implemented others into its stories. There are a few vague mentions of the Great Recession, but it doesn’t appear to impact any of the characters the same way it did others, and if anything, somewhat trivializes it.

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While Friends may be one of the most notable sitcoms that leans into the financially unrealistic character trope, How I Met Your Mother takes it further than most titles. Of course, unlike Friends, How I Met Your Mother has an unreliable narrator, and it would make sense if Ted’s wacky stories exaggerate certain things.
This story originally appeared on Screenrant