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Did a famous grave in the Altadena hills survive the fires?

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On a hill above Altadena named Little Round Top, a grave stood for 136 years as the community below it blossomed.

Here lay the remains of Owen Brown, son of the legendary abolitionist John Brown. Owen moved to Pasadena in the 1880s and was greeted by locals as a hero for fighting alongside his father in the Bleeding Kansas wars and Harper’s Ferry raid. His funeral in 1889 attracted thousands of mourners, and he was put to rest near a cabin where he and a brother spent his last years.

The grave became a place of veneration, then a site of controversy in the early 2000s when Little Round Top’s owner began to shoo away the curious. Lawsuits were filed to push for public access. Brown’s tombstone disappeared for a decade before being found hundreds of feet down the hill.

His final resting place is now open to the public. A new owner gave a local group $300,000 to restore it in 2018, the Los Angeles County Board of Supervisors designated it as a historical landmark in December, and the site is now under the care of the Santa Monica Mountains Conservancy.

The saga was supposed to get its most prominent airing yet on Wednesday at Mountain View Cemetery, where two of Owen’s siblings are buried and where a plaque is inscribed with his name and image. Altadena resident and filmmaker Pablo Miralles had been scheduled to debut a 20-minute documentary on Owen’s life.

Facebook is where I learned about the screening. Facebook is also where I learned that Miralles and his family lost their home in the Eaton fire.

He and his son fled with important documents, photos and a painting his grandmother took with her as she escaped the Nazi invasion of the Netherlands. Gone are Miralles’ production notebook and the final paychecks for his crew. The documentary was already saved online, though Miralles has no idea when it will screen.

“People need to find places to live — we need to find a place to live,” said Miralles last week at Stumptown Coffee in Pasadena. “I’m proud of my film, but it can wait.”

Few were better qualified to make a documentary about Owen Brown than Miralles. His parents, immigrants from Argentina, moved from Eagle Rock to Altadena in the 1970s after finding a home large enough for them and their seven children. They ignored friends who said Altadena was “dangerous” and financed the purchase through a Black-owned bank. Their regular bank had refused “because they told my father that our house would be on a Black street,” Miralles said.

He remembers a bucolic upbringing in a multiracial paradise that informed the rest of his life and eventually became his muse. The 60-year-old created a well-received documentary about how his alma mater, John Muir High in Pasadena, resegregated as white families enrolled their children in private and charter schools. Last year, Miralles wrote and directed a play that imagined a friendship between two of the City of Roses’ most famous natives, Julia Child and Jackie Robinson. (I appeared in his 2012 documentary about the intense soccer rivalry between the U.S. and Mexico).

“I didn’t know I would cover Pasadena like I have,” he said, “but when you recognize that you came from a place with a history of struggle, you kind of have to.”

Pablo Miralles, a documentary filmmaker who lost his home in the Eaton fire, hikes to the grave of Owen Brown, son of abolitionist John Brown. Miralles is completing a documentary about Owen and how he ended up in the Pasadena area.

(Allen J. Schaben / Los Angeles Times)

Altadena’s charm lured Miralles back as a resident in 2019. By then, he had made a four-minute short for the Owen Brown Gravesite Committee about their cause.

“You learn about [John Brown] in school, that he’s a maniac and a madman intent on killing white slave owners,” said Miralles, who had hiked up to Owen’s grave but otherwise didn’t know much about him at the time. “But when you read his papers, he wasn’t that at all.”

Miralles’ short film impressed committee chair Michele Zack. She asked Miralles to make a longer film that the Pasadena Unified School District could show in classrooms.

Owen joined his father in the armed conflicts that made John Brown such a divisive figure in U.S. history. In Kansas, Owen killed a man in a skirmish between abolitionists and pro-slavery settlers. He stayed behind to guard weapons and horses while his father led the raid on Harper’s Ferry in 1859, which resulted in the deaths of two of Owen’s brothers and in John’s capture and execution.

“The 1850s resonate so strongly with what’s happening right now,” said Zack, who also lost her home in the Eaton fire. “You think we’re divided now? We were divided even more in the 1850s. Owen Brown is symbolic of all that, and here’s this history right in our backyard.”

She still wants to screen the Brown documentary to the public — but not any time soon.

“There’s so much suffering and loss and pain right now, and that’s going to go on for years — but we’re not going to postpone [the film] for years,” Zack said.

Miralles and his team were busy putting the final touches on the project. In fact, the sound engineer was working on it the day the Eaton fire forced him to evacuate (his house remains standing).

“The idea that the original radical abolitionists have their literal roots here — the man is still there, his bones are there — is just so important,” Miralles said. “We need to live up to the ideals of this nation like Owen, which means we locals will fight to maintain diversity here.”

He looked at his phone’s home screen to check the time. It featured a photo of him, his wife, their son and their two dogs at their home in early January.

We got into his SUV and drove into Altadena. The plan was to visit his incinerated home, then see if Brown’s grave came out unscathed. Neither he nor Zack knew its fate.

Miralles drove by his former school, Franklin Elementary — destroyed. A chimney was all that remained of the home where his brother lived. “Here are a lot of my friends,” Miralles said with a sigh as his head darted from side to side. “Just blocks and blocks and blocks.”

He decided to not stop at his home “because I don’t want to put on a hazmat suit again.” Instead, we passed through checkpoint after checkpoint — “Military vehicles in my hood. It’s kind of crazy” — before getting on a winding street that ended near Brown’s grave.

Signs all around warned people to proceed at their own risk. Another proclaimed, “Looters Will be Shot.” Others said the fire danger was “extreme.”

The paved street turned into a one-lane gravel road leading into the Angeles National Forest. Miralles parked near a long-abandoned car that occupied the spot “where Owen’s cabin used to be.” A worker from the California Conservation Corps soon approached us to ask what we were doing up there.

Miralles explained the purpose of our visit. The worker nodded.

“I wondered why there was a trail going up there,” he said, waving over to Little Round Top before walking back to clear more brush.

The first part of the trail is narrow, with a steep drop that forced me to look ahead instead of writing in my notebook. Vibrant yucca, scrub oak and sage stood alongside dried-out chaparral. Along the way were interpretive signs that told the stories of two pioneers of Black Los Angeles: Biddy Mason, a formerly enslaved woman who became a wealthy property owner downtown, and Robert Owens, a successful businessman and Mason’s relative by marriage who used to collect wood in the hills we were trekking through.

We eventually got to the base of Little Round Top, named after a famous Civil War battle, and looked down at a devastated Altadena of blackened trees and leveled properties.

I asked Miralles what he saw.

“It’s not what I see,” he replied. “It’s what I don’t see.”

From there, we hiked up a short but steep switchback that ended on a dirt plateau. Pine trees offered shade for two benches. Before us was Brown’s grave.

Pablo Miralles looks at the grave of Owen Brown.

After a short hike up the hill, Miralles views the grave of Owen Brown, son of abolitionist John Brown.

(Allen J. Schaben / Los Angeles Times)

Stones outlined where his body lies. Someone had drawn a heart in the dirt. At the head of the grave was a tombstone that listed Brown’s name, his years of life and the legend “Son of John Brown the Liberator.”

There were no signs of fire damage. Miralles looked relieved.

“There used to be way more vegetation here, but it’s all cleared,” he said as we looked down at Altadena again. To our right in the distance was La Cañada Flintridge. A streak of pink fire retardant soiled the valley below.

“I hope people recognize the importance of this grave and what Owen and his family represented for this country,” he said as we looked at Brown’s tombstone. Then he looked back to his Altadena. A plume of dust now rose from a neighborhood.

“I used to hike these hills growing up. There would be fires every three to four years, he said. “But I never thought what happened to us would ever happen.”



This story originally appeared on LA Times

Apple is too late to intervene in Google monopoly case

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Google is the default search engine on iPhone because it pays to be

Google has been found in court to be a monopoly, but there is to be a trial to plan how to remedy the situation, and the judge has now refused to accept Apple intervening, saying it waited too long.

The US Department of Justice’s (DOJ) antitrust lawsuit against Alphabet, the parent company of Google, reached a key point in August 2024. Judge Amit Metha ruled that Google is a search and advertising monopoly, and is in breach of Section 2 of the Sherman Act.

Following this, the trial continued, and it is shortly to be followed by what’s called a remedy trial. According to Courthouse News, Apple filed a motion to defend its “property interest” over its contract worth billions of dollars with Google over search on the iPhone — and it’s been dismissed.

Apple reportedly requested permission to file a motion on December 23, 2024. However, Judge Mehta said that Apple should have known from the outset in 2020 that the case could “directly affect its contractual rights.”

“Apple knew (or should have known) that waiting two-and-a-half months to intervene in a proceeding scheduled to last just eight months altogether would constitute a significant delay,” he continued.

“Because Apple’s motion is untimely, the court must deny it,” wrote Judge Mehta in his full ruling. “The court, however, will permit Apple to participate as amicus curiae and file post-hearing submissions to ensure consideration of Apple’s views when crafting the remedial decree.”

“Apple does not dispute that it knew or should have known since this suit’s inception that its contractual rights would be directly affected,” continues the ruling. “Nor could it.”

Initially, Apple reportedly said that it wanted only limited intervention, and present witnesses who could address how proposed remedies would affect the company. Apple then later said that it wished to propose its own remedy, and more fully participate in the forthcoming trial.

There was reportedly also the issue that Judge Mehta believes allowing Apple to do this would mean all other possible parties such as Samsung, would follow. Judge Mehta intends to conclude the remedy trial with a ruling by August 2025.

Apple did provide witnesses during the original DOJ trial. It was revealed during that trial that Apple typically earns $20 billion annually from making Google the default search on iPhone.



This story originally appeared on Appleinsider

Video: McGregor squares up with 7’1 Bucks player Brook Lopez mid-game

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Conor McGregor continues to be everywhere but in the cage as he continues his adventures in the United States.

“The Notorious” flew over for the inauguration of Donald Trump, stuck around to marshal attention for BKFC’s KnuckleMania 5 event, and was spotted courtside last night in Salt Lake City at the Jazz-Bucks game. Although the Mac had a loose definition of what constituted the side, repeatedly stepping onto the court and even interacting with players on the bench mid-game.

One viral moment from the game came as the Bucks were going for a free throw in the second quarter. McGregor cut across the court to talk to 7’1 Milwaukee center Brook Lopez. The 5’9 McGregor asked him to stand up, and Lopez obliged, towering over the former UFC double-champ.

“He asked me how tall I was. I let him know,” Lopez told reporters after the game. “He asked me to stand up, and I did. And I knew at that point once I got up, I had to size him up. I had to do a little something. I’ve seen the face-offs before, so I knew I had to do my part.”

Lopez admitted he wasn’t as knowledgeable an MMA fan as his teammate Dame Lillard.

“Now, if something’s going to happen, maybe Dame can be my promoter or Dame can be my manager or whatever, teach me to fight because I got nothing,” he joked. “So I’m really going to rely on Dame for that.”

Hopefully that’s as much as McGregor got up to as he’s still dealing with legal issues from the last NBA game he attended. The Irish sports star has been looking to set up a big fight for himself, but can’t seem to get the UFC to agree to anything inside the cage or out. Unless something changes, we may not see McGregor compete again until late 2025.



This story originally appeared on MMA Mania

Nontraditional Engagement Rings as a Modern Symbol of Love – Hollywood Life

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Picture the perfect moment—intimate, natural, and utterly romantic. The love of your life kneels and asks the question, and there’s no traditional solitaire diamond ring in sight. The idea of breaking away from tradition might seem daunting at first, but you’re not alone in this. Modern couples are increasingly breaking away from tradition and proposing with nontraditional rings. Finding a design that truly reflects their love and matches their lifestyle is not always simple.

More often than not, choosing a nontraditional engagement ring is driven by personal style, design preferences, and practicality rather than finances. This change and the availability of creative engagement ring alternatives empower couples to choose a ring that reflects their story and personality, often with a statement-making main stone in the center and tiny diamonds for that extra sparkle.

Add a Pop of Color

While diamonds have long been the go-to for engagement rings, a more contemporary trend is emerging. Sustainable gemstones, accented by diamonds, are gaining popularity. One such modern alternative to diamonds are alexandrites. They were first discovered in the Ural Mountains of Russia in the early 19th century and were named in honor of the future emperor Alexander II. The natural version of this color-changing gem is rare, so a lab-created, more affordable version is often used.

Lab-grown alexandrites, with a Mohs hardness of 8.5, are highly durable and suited for everyday wear. Unlike mined alexandrite gemstones, engagement rings with alexandrites that are lab-grown are free of inclusions and conflict, as they have a minimal environmental impact. This makes them highly desirable among modern couples looking for a colorful ring that reflects their environmental values.

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Your choice of metal to accompany the alexandrite can achieve a different aesthetic. You can’t go wrong with yellow or rose gold if you want a warmer, vintage look. However, to achieve a contrast with the color-changing gemstone, a cool tone of platinum or white gold would be the right choice.

Alexandrites, chosen as a birthstone for Gemini, go well with all types of ring styles, from elegant and simple solitaires to bold, attention-grabbing geometric ones like this kite alexandrite ring. Tiny white diamonds line the base of the kite, adding some extra length and sparkle to the shorter side. The uniquely shaped band also makes it easy to pair with many stacking rings like chevrons and open-band wedding rings.

Explore Geometrical Cuts

The geometrically cut gemstones are among the most popular choices for nontraditional engagement rings. Hexagon and kite-shaped stones, in particular, have been the couple’s favorites for the past few years. Their usually larger surface makes them the perfect cuts for semi-precious gems with unique patterns. Cue the moss agates, of course. Depending on your aesthetic, geometric rings can be stacked to create a trendy bridal ring set. If you are in the market for a geometric ring, you shall find it at Aurelius Jewelry.

The hexagonal cut features a six-sided shape commonly found in nature. Due to its shape, it is commonly set in bezels or secured with different numbers of prongs of different styles. The geometric look that the hexagon provides can be applied to both precious and semi-precious gemstone types.

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Step-cut geometric shapes with a flat bottom part of the stone allow for incredibly comfortable low-profile rings. One such design that definitely stands out is this hexagon moss agate engagement ring with leaves and diamond pavé. The nature-inspired details will have you admiring, and you may or may not ever stop staring at your hand.

The main stone is secured by four heart-shaped prongs positioned at the outer corners, leaving the top and bottom tips exposed. This allows for a more open setting that lets as much light as possible pass through the stone and illuminate the mossy inclusions. However, the most distinctive feature of this design must be the mirrored and flipped leaf band design that makes this ring unlike any other you’ve seen before.

Play with Asymmetry

Other nontraditional engagement ring styles included asymmetrical designs with unique arrangements of side stones around or alongside the main gemstone. These so-called cluster rings break away from traditional symmetry of engagement rings with their artistic touch and unpredictability. They often include colored gemstones and east-west settings.

Combining several smaller gemstones makes the ring look larger without increasing the price. Clusters might not be for everyone, as those who prefer minimalist designs might find them too ornate. However, couples seeking a unique, bold, eye-catching ring should definitely give them a chance.

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One of the advantages of this ring style is its potential for personalization. These rings can be easily customized by incorporating your and your loved ones’ birthstones. For instance, a moss agate cluster ring with aquamarines and diamonds, aquamarines for March and diamonds for April.

Connect With Nature

Nature-inspired engagement rings are the new favorite choice for several reasons. Artistic details, like leaves and vines, add organic textures that align with modern couples’ eco-conscious values. The craftsmanship required to create such a detailed piece of jewelry should definitely not be overlooked, either.



This story originally appeared on Hollywoodlife

The UK’s worst airports for flight cancellations – see the full list | Travel News | Travel

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The UK’s worst airports for cancellations in 2024 have been unveiled, following a difficult year for the industry who faced challenges from stormy weather to IT failures. 

Data from January to November 2024 provided by the Civil Aviation Authority (CAA) was analysed by AirAdvisor. The CAA defines a cancelled flight as: “the non-operation of a previously planned flight, announced less than 24 hours before or after its scheduled departure time.”

Southampton Airport topped the list, averaging 3.3% monthly flight cancellations, which spiked at 5.5% in the month of November. London City comes in second with a monthly average of 2.9% of flights cancelled. 

AirAdvisor’s chief executive Anton Radchenko gave his take on the figures: “2024 was a challenging year for Southampton Airport. In February, the CAA’s data suggests that cancellations hit 4.9 per cent – planned industrial action by firefighters and technicians was fortunately called off at the last minute. “Stormy weather, snow and fog often result in cancellations, with January and February being notoriously troublesome months for airports due to bad weather.”

Anton also highlighted the importance of passengers knowing their rights in case of a flight cancellation. He advised: “When flights are cancelled, you are entitled to request a seat on an alternative flight to your destination. If your airline can’t rebook you within a reasonable amount of time, then they must find an alternate flight even if this is with a different airline.

“If you choose not to travel, you are entitled to a full ticket refund. Speak to a representative from your airline at the airport, if there is a seat available on another carrier’s flight, they are required to book it for you, at their expense. 

“There’s a whole multitude of reasons for flights to be cancelled, which might not always be properly communicated to passengers by airlines, so it’s always worth filing a claim if you are affected.If your flight is cancelled with less than two weeks’ notice and you’re flying with a UK or EU-based carrier or within the UK or EU, you may be due up to £520 in compensation.”

Despite the disruptions, some airports, namely Liverpool, Luton, and Bournemouth, achieved months with no cancellations at all. Bournemouth Airport now ranks as the one with the fewest cancellations with an average just 0.04% of flights cancelled each month. 



This story originally appeared on Express.co.uk

‘The Night Agent’ Fans Need to Check Out Prime Video’s ‘Hanna’

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Nearly two years after its riveting Netflix debut, The Night Agent has finally returned for a second season on January 23, 2025. Bigger, bolder, and more expansive, the sophomore chapter finds Peter Sutherland (Gabriel Basso) on a globe-trotting adventure that begins in Bangkok and ends in New York, with a new conspiratorial web of intrigue involving the U.S. government, the United Nations, the FBI, and the CIA.

While The Night Agent‘s twisty plot can get confusing and downright implausible with its outlandish conspiracies, the series delivers relentless action, visceral shootouts, harrowing fight scenes, and suspenseful rescue missions. To that end, the series shares plenty in common with the underrated and highly recommendable Prime Video original Hanna, a breathless action bonanza sure to deliver the same exhilarating jolt as The Night Agent.


Hanna

Release Date

2019 – 2020

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Amazon Prime Video



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‘The Night Agent’ Is a Hit Spy Thriller on Netflix

Shawn Ryan created The Night Agent for Netflix, an action spy TV thriller based on Matthew Quirk’s novel. The story concerns Peter Sutherland, a naive FBI agent who works in the White House in Washington, D.C., as a “Night Action” telephone operator. What begins as a boring and thankless job babysitting a phone that never rings soon blooms into a vast conspiracy when Peter answers a call one fateful night.

Upon receiving the call, Peter is made aware of Rose Larkin (Luciane Buchanan), a cybersecurity expert whose aunt and uncle were former Night Agents before their mysterious murders. Peter’s main mission is to keep Rose safe while identifying a mole operating secretly within the FBI and linking the mole to the murders. Yet, with vast inter-agency cover-ups, deceitful double crossings, and classic espionage defections, getting to the bottom of the conspiracy is much harder than expected.

With the stakes rising to death, Peter must deal with duplicitous government officials and ruthless assassins out for blood. Eve Harlow and Phoenix Rae play paired assassins Ellen and Dale, who track Peter and Rose with intent to kill. Ellen is particularly savvy with her skills as a professional killer, calling to mind Soarise Ronan’s awesome performance as child assassin Hanna and the 2019 Prime Video adaptation of the Joe Wright film.

‘Hanna’ Features a Super Assassin on Prime Video

David Farr created Hanna for Prime Video, a hardened action-thriller centering on Hanna Heller (Esme Creed-Miles), a 15-year-old girl trained by her adoptive father, Erik Heller (Joel Kinnaman) to be a super assassin. Shielded from the world since her mother’s death and raised in the Polish forest under Erik’s care, Hanna is targeted by rogue CIA operative Marissa Wiegler (Mireille Enos), a shady secret program leader who defects as an enemy to become Hanna’s ally.

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As Hanna comes of age and experiences the outside world for the first time, her bright-eyed naivety is balanced by her ruthless assassin skills. Hanna and Erik protect each other from Marissa’s cohorts while globe-trotting from Berlin to Morocco, London, Romania, Barcelona, Paris, and other key CIA outposts in Europe. Hanna’s conflict reaches a climactic pitch when she discovers that she has been part of UTRAX, a secret CIA program meant to create a race of super soldiers using enhanced adolescent DNA.

Although Marissa is hired to track Hanna down and shut down UTRAX, her sympathies shift, and she becomes more of a parent figure, especially when Erik becomes endangered. Apart from worldly travels and vast international settings, Hanna’s undying action is some of the best on television and often outshoots The Night Agent with expert precision and lasting aftereffects.

Why ‘The Night Agent’ Fans Must Watch ‘Hanna’

Those drawn to The Night Agent‘s web of deceit, double agents, and vast government conspiracy will get an even bigger kick out of Hanna‘s 22-episode run. Although not quite a spy thriller, Hanna’s brutal action scenes are second to none and often outshine The Night Agent’s rote and routine gunplay seen a thousand times in police procedurals. By contrast, Hanna is an expert hunter and an assassin, frequently using archery skills and hand-to-hand combat to subdue her assailants as a one-person army. Hanna‘s action set pieces are more varied, vicious, and visceral.

Past Hanna‘s superior action, the CIA’s involvement in Hanna and The Night Agent Season 2 links the two series even tighter. The CIA is behind UTRAX in Hanna, with scientists, leaders, and chairmen pulling the strings behind the scenes the whole time. The Night Agent‘s second season begins with a CIA leak from its Bangkok station, resulting in both action series indicting the intelligence agency for being as harmful as it is helpful.

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‘The Night Agent’ might tell a new story when the series returns for Season 2, but that doesn’t mean it will lack entertaining political drama.

Outstanding character actors Noah Taylor, Dermot Mulroney, and the late great Ray Liotta play high-ranking CIA officials designing, implementing, and overseeing UTRAX, leading to better acting and more convincing performances than in The Night Agent. Better performances equal greater plausibility, making Hanna more realistic than The Night Agent‘s conspiratorial trappings.

While Hanna reigns supreme in many respects, The Night Agent has been viewed far more often. The Night Agent Season 1 became the seventh most-watched Netflix original TV series of all time (via Netflix). Hanna boasts nowhere near the same viewership on Prime Video despite boasting higher user ratings. Hanna holds a 7.6 IMDb rating and 79% Popcornmeter score compared to The Night Agent‘s 7.5 IMDb rating and 64% Popcornmeter rating. For a show with better acting, more intense action, and a more plausible government conspiracy, Hanna remains a highly underrated TV series that every Night Agent fan should check out as soon as possible. Hanna is available to stream on Prime Video.



This story originally appeared on Movieweb

MCU Showrunner Teases The Appearance Of Mystery Marvel Character In Upcoming Release

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This article covers a developing story. Continue to check back with us as we will be adding more information as it becomes available.

Daredevil: Born Again will feature a surprise Marvel Cinematic Universe character.

Speaking with SFX Magazine (via @MCU_Direct/Twitter), Daredevil: Born Again showrunner Dario Scardapane teased how an unexpected MCU character will appear in the upcoming Marvel series.

Source: SFX Magazine (via @MCU_Direct/Twitter)

This article covers a developing story. Continue to check back with us as we will be adding more information as it becomes available.



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Lola Kirke on being fame-ish and finding her own path as an artist

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On the Shelf

‘Wild West Village’

By Lola Kirke
Simon & Schuster: 272 pages, $29
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When Lola Kirke was a young teen, her “manny” was a fallen rock musician with boundary issues while a movie star friend of the family she calls Gideon (not his real name) seemed a little too friendly when she got high, as the actor-musician recalls in her collection of essays, “Wild West Village.” Then there was the time spent visiting a sister in rehab and the day she learned she had a half brother from one of her father’s affairs.

So, while Kirke grew up with wealth and privilege (she’s the daughter of Bad Company drummer Simon Kirke), and glamorous older siblings (Domino signed to a recording deal in her teens while Jemima became a co-star on “Girls”), life in her expensive New York brownstone and private school wasn’t always easy. She writes about a chaotic family life in a home filled with booze and drugs (Jemima has spoken openly about time in rehab).

Even as Kirke found success on her own, for her prominent role on “Mozart in the Jungle” among other projects, she was struggling with her sense of who she was, drinking and smoking and sabotaging herself along the way. Now 34, living in Nashville and with a burgeoning country music career and a stable relationship, Kirke has turned to self-reflection, and although the book is subtitled “Not a Memoir (Unless I Win an Oscar, Die Tragically, or Score a Country #1),” it is very much is a memoir.

Kirke spoke recently with The Times about her unusual upbringing and writing about it. This interview has been edited for length and clarity.

Do you think of yourself now as a country singer or as somebody who sings and acts and now writes?

I think of myself as a person who sings and acts and now writes. I don’t think it’s wise, at least for me, to identify as anything other than a person. Life’s too precarious, and if you’re lucky enough to try to make art as your career, it’s so volatile that I feel like you have to ground yourself in your personhood first.

Why did you call this not a memoir?

I describe myself as fame-ish, not famous. Writing a memoir at my age, I’m straddling a bizarre line — it’s not just a literary memoir, but I’m not fully in the celebrity lane, even though so much of the world in which I grew up was about being somebody. The subtitle is me saying that I know I haven’t done the things that you need to do to write a celebrity memoir and poking fun at that idea.

You write about your boyfriend, whom you call The Cowboy, saying that you need to be enough of a “someone” just to yourself. Have you reached that level of acceptance?

It’s taken a lot of work, but I actually feel very grounded in that way now. I’m so grateful because it’s just so exhausting to constantly be trying to be somebody to other people. And that’s so much of what my book is about.

I know that my parents love me to the best of their ability and very, very deeply, and that I got so much out of those relationships, but I didn’t always feel that love. And so my work — whether it’s acting or music or writing — is me saying, “I love you,” and wanting someone to say, “I love you, too.” Now I’m able to see, I am loved, too, and I don’t need to chase something that is very much already there. And that’s a relief.

Did you need to find yourself to write the book, or did writing it help you get past your insecurities about your identity?

Writing has helped me discover and articulate who I am in a way that I never knew. So much of great writing when I read it is naming the unnameable. When somebody can put into words things you have felt — whether that’s music or prose or poetry or just an advertising slogan — it’s incredible. When I began to write about my life, I really did understand it so much better.

I made the mistake of going on Goodreads and the first review, from a woman named Jennifer from Boston, said essentially, “She sucks and she’s not famous enough to write a memoir.”

Then I’d get three good reviews, so I’d keep going back, but the next one would be “I hate her writing, and who the @#$@ does she think she is?” So I’m getting used to not being liked, and I am grateful to this book and my writing for helping me do that.

Are you naturally funny or were you consciously thinking I need to keep this entertaining so it doesn’t feel more weighty than my life really was?

I aspired to be funny my whole life, but it’s only recently that people have started to tell me I am funny. Reading my writing, I was able to see how much I use humor both positively and avoidantly, so I learned a lot from editing my own work.

But also when I read my own work during editing I’ve noticed this distinct voice I have as a writer. People have said, “Reading your book is just talking to you,” but do you remember Dame Edna? I feel like Dame Edna wrote my book — some delusional grande dame who’s so funny. I don’t know who that person is, but I guess that’s who I am. I think by virtue of the way I grew up, my perspective is going to seem funny in a myriad of ways to other people, whether that’s funny or just, “Oh, she’s a little off.”

I have this kind of delusional charm, but that can be a manipulative tactic to survive. I always wanted people to like me and I didn’t feel safe in the world for a lot of my life so I had to be very charming to feel secure. And now I’m letting go of that a little bit, and thank God, because it’s exhausting. [Switching to a dry, joking tone] It’s exhausting being this charming.

You didn’t find out you had a half brother until your late teens; he was born with severe brain damage and died at 19; you spent a few years visiting him even though your father never did. How did that impact you?

I do think it softened me and opened me up. As a person who is probably more on the precipice of being a mother myself, it’s made me think about what it’s like to be a true mother. I think about unconditional love and learning what that is and learning how to give it. I grew up in this world where you being someone is what earns you a place in the world. At least, that was the feeling I had. With him I saw you are worth love no matter who you are. So that will always be with me.

How concerned were you about showing the book to family members?

The rule I tried to implement, and I mostly do, was that I’d only tell stories about other people that they’ve already revealed themselves in one form or another. But when I shared it with my family, I definitely got feedback of, “Oh, I’ve never told anybody that.”

My sisters have been absolutely incredible about the book, which was so heartening to me. I was most scared of their reaction. Their support feels like the sisterly relationship I write about not having so much throughout the book. So that was a real blessing.

My brother asked, “Why aren’t I in the book more?” But he’s been very sweet about it — he’s 12 years older than me and was pretty much out of the house. But also he just was really good so there isn’t enough drama with him.

There have certainly been other people that have been really upset. But some that I thought might be upset have loved it. It’s complicated to write about people who are alive and to be written about. [With mock petulance] I have yet to be made into a character in somebody’s book…. I’m waiting.



This story originally appeared on LA Times

Rihanna Preps For Valentine’s Day With Lingerie Cake-Frosting Video

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He probably already knows, but here’s a helpful tip for A$AP Rocky about some potential Valentine’s Day gifts to skip this year when shopping for his longtime love Rihanna: no corny love songs please!

In a 90-second video captioned “Savage X Fenty Presents: Love Your Way!” the “Birthday Cake” singer slips into some revealing pink and purple lingerie from her Savage X Fenty collection to frost a cake and answer some sentimental, silly and sexy questions about the upcoming romantic holiday, while dropping some real talk about what she definitely doesn’t want.

After wondering if the frosting is edible — then taking a bite before finding out anyway — RihRih gets right to the heart of the matter when asked if she prefers a valentine or galentine celebration. “I’ve done galentines for, um, several years,” said the mother of two young children. “But it’s very nice to have a valentine.”

Popping some sprinkles on top, Rihanna was on the fence when it came to choosing between lace or latex, though. “Depends on the day,” she said with a wink, noting that if given the choice between a get-away and staying at home she views staying put as its own kind of get-away.

“I just want to stay home… and watch reality TV,” the billionaire fashion and cosmetics mogul relatably said in the clip captioned “it’s not even my birthday [birthday cake emoji].”

In another useful tip for rapper Rocky, Rihanna made it crystal clear that there is one thing she never, ever wants on the day most dudes spend running out to the local Walgreens to find the last, saddest bouquet of flowers after grabbing the lamest card left on the decimated racks.

“Ugh, please! Never make me a love song!” she huffed when asked to choose between a love tune or a love letter. “That is corny, trust me. I’ve seen it,” she added conspiratorially, without hinting at who she was hinting at.

A few more tips: walk on the beach or movie night? “I say make a movie on the beach,” she said while popping raspberries on her perfect confection. Flirty banter or heart-to-heart? On that one she couldn’t even keep a straight face when trying to solemnly suggest that it’s definitely the latter, because, “I’m a very vulnerable… person.”

In the end, all that frosting was for naught, as the cake slipped from RihRih’s hands at the end and another romantic gesture bit the dust.

Check out the full video here.



This story originally appeared on Billboard

Prostate cancer now England’s most common type as charity calls for NHS guidelines change

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Prostate cancer has become England’s most common cancer, according to new analysis.

Diagnoses of the disease overtook breast cancer in 2022 and 2023, Prostate Cancer UK said. Data also suggests there has been a 25% increase in prostate cancer cases between 2019 and 2023.

The charity said this was down to heightened awareness of the disease, leading to more men getting an early diagnosis.

Analysis of NHS data by Prostate Cancer UK found 50,751 men were diagnosed with prostate cancer in England in 2022 compared with 48,531 diagnoses of breast cancer.

The figures increased again in 2023, with 55,033 people receiving a prostate cancer diagnosis compared with 47,526 breast cancer cases.

Chiara De Biase, director of health services, equity and improvement at Prostate Cancer UK, said: “Unlike other cancers, prostate cancer won’t give you symptoms in its crucial early stages when it’s easier to treat, so as a charity we can’t tell you about tell-tale signs to look out for.

“That’s why we do everything we can to make every man aware of his risk of getting the disease and empower him to think about his testing options — so that he has the best chance of getting that all-important earlier diagnosis. Because the earlier you find prostate cancer, the easier it is to treat.”

Most cases of prostate cancer develop in men aged over 50 and it is most common in black men.

It is diagnosed using a mix of physical exams, scans and tests that measure prostate specific antigen (PSA) in the blood.

NHS guidelines for England say anyone can request a PSA test if they are over the age of 50, while GPs are currently told to use their clinical judgment for men aged under 50 without symptoms who they consider to be at increased risk of prostate cancer.

Men of any age with symptoms can request a test.

Ms De Biase added: “These new figures show that awareness is now growing across the UK, and we’re proud to have played our part in this alongside our supporters and the NHS.

“More men than ever are learning about their risk, speaking to their GP about the PSA blood test, and then taking the best next steps.”

Professor Peter Johnson, NHS national clinical director for cancer, said: “Thanks to the hard work of NHS staff and effective awareness campaigns, we are diagnosing more men with prostate cancer at an earlier stage than ever before, so they have the best possible chance of receiving effective treatment.

“We know that coming forward for prostate checks can be daunting, but it could save your life, so we would encourage men to consult the prostate cancer symptoms advice available on NHS.uk, and to see their GP as soon as possible if they are concerned.”

However, Ms De Biase warned there was a “dreadful North-South divide” in the UK when it came to diagnosis, and also called for the Government to change guidance relating to when GPs could flag risks to patients.

“At the moment, there’s no screening programme for prostate cancer, and not every man has a fair shot at getting diagnosed earlier,” she added. “We face a dreadful North-South divide in the UK, where you’re more likely to get an incurable diagnosis in certain areas than others. Plus, men living in more deprived areas are less likely to get the treatments they need.

“Despite all this, GPs aren’t currently allowed to raise the issue of prostate cancer and testing, even with the men who have the highest risk of getting it — something we’re asking the Government to change right now.”

Prostate Cancer UK is urging people to support its call to “overhaul outdated NHS guidelines”.

A letter to Health Secretary Wes Streeting, dated January 9, said: “Too many black men are dying from a curable disease, and you have the power to make changes that could save hundreds of lives every year.”

It added: “We’re calling on the Government to overhaul outdated NHS guidelines so that doctors can start conversations with black men about their risk from 45-years-old, and talk about the option of a quick and easy blood test to check for possible signs of prostate cancer.”

In November, Mr Streeting told BBC Breakfast that he had asked the NHS “to look at the case for lowering the screening age on prostate cancer” in light of Sir Chris Hoy’s call for men with a family history of the disease to get checked.

Olympic cycling champion Sir Chris revealed his cancer was terminal in October.

The Prostate Cancer UK figures come after separate analysis by Macmillan suggest 3.4 million people will be living with cancer in the UK by December 2025.

This includes around 890,000 women with breast cancer, 610,000 men with prostate cancer, 390,000 people with bowel cancer and 120,000 with lung cancer.



This story originally appeared on Express.co.uk